THE STORY ABOUT MEN VS WOMEN

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Okay, for this moment I will talking about differences between men and women, but it's only some of them.

I am sure this is will be intersting for you

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POINT 1

Fix it problems

👨Men

When men have problems, men like to solve their problems quickly. They need time to think about how to solve their problems. They like if they are considered great, strong and can overcome their problems. Men like it if their solution is valued. Sometimes they want more free time for them, they want their women to accept them as they are without giving them advice and changing their abilities.

👩Women

When women have problem, they like to given attention by their partner. They need their close friends to tell their problems. Women want to more heard if they have problems. Therefore, men must understand and be sensitive to women. Because their feeling is important. Women need help when they have a problem and women like it if their help is appreciated.

POINT 2

The Side of Emotional

👨Men

Men use their logic. They want to considered strong, great. They need free time. They prefer their efforts to be appreciated and they hate if they are insulted or ignored. Men like if they feel needed. They want to be trusted and accepted as they are. When they are stressed they only want free time for themselves. Men like who will love him, show him with trust, acceptance, and admiration.

In a relationship 👫 . . . . 👨men need to feel their solutions to be                                                valued           
                                           👩women need to feel their help to be                                                    appreciated
👩 Women

Women use their feelings. They always want their partners be there. They want their partner to care, give attention, and respect. Women like if they feel loved. When they are stressed they want their problems heard. Women like who love her, show her with caring, understanding, respect, and validation.

When they are stress :

     👨 Men:  - focused            👩Women : - overwhelmed
                     - withdrawn                                 - emotionally involved
                     - solving the problem                - talking about problems
                                                                           - express herself 
                                                                           - feel undrerstood

POINT 3

The Side of Speaking

👨Men

When men are communicating with their friend, they only talk to the point. They talk in very literal terms. They talk when it is needed, especially it is important. Because they non-communicative and expressive. The words used are simple and not dramatic.

👩Woman

When women are communicating with their friends, they are more communicative. The words used are more artistic and dramatic. Because woman is more expressive. They like express their feelings or share their problems to their closes friends.

POINT 4

👨Men are easily to forgive, they don't think too much about it, because they use their logic not their feeling. So, they quickly move on and resolve.

👩Women are easy to forgive too, but they still remember it. Even when her partner has a mistake, women sometimes bring up their partner's past. Because they have deep feeling and always use their feeling.

                                                                                                                                      

We know that men and women are different, they have their own paths. Therefore, a relationship must be open to each other, understanding, caring, accepting and trusting each other. So that, their relationship is going well.

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FYI : This is resume from book by John Gray (publised, 1992)

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