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everyone 👏, I come back ☺
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Okay,
for this moment I will talking about differences between men and women, but it's only some of them.
I am
sure this is will be intersting for you
Are you curious? So, check it out 😃😆 .........
POINT 1
Fix it problems
👨Men
When men have problems,
men like to solve their problems quickly. They need time to think about how
to solve their problems. They like if they are considered great, strong and
can overcome their problems. Men like it if their solution is valued. Sometimes they want more
free time for them, they want their women to accept them as they are without
giving them advice and changing their abilities.
👩Women
When women have problem,
they like to given attention by their partner. They need their close friends
to tell their problems. Women want to more heard if they have problems. Therefore,
men must understand and be sensitive to women. Because their feeling is
important. Women need help when they have a problem and women like it if their
help is appreciated.
POINT 2
The Side of Emotional
👨Men
Men use their logic.
They want to considered strong, great. They need free time. They prefer their
efforts to be appreciated and they hate if they are insulted or ignored. Men
like if they feel needed. They want to be trusted and accepted as they are.
When they are stressed they only want free time for themselves. Men like who
will love him, show him with trust, acceptance, and admiration.
In a relationship 👫 . . . . 👨men
need to feel their solutions to be valued
👩women need to feel their help to be appreciated
👩 Women
👩women need to feel their help to be appreciated
👩 Women
Women use their feelings.
They always want their partners be there. They want their partner to care, give
attention, and respect. Women like if they feel loved. When they are stressed
they want their problems heard. Women like who love her, show her with
caring, understanding, respect, and validation.
When they are stress :
👨 Men: - focused 👩Women : - overwhelmed
- withdrawn - emotionally involved
- solving the problem - talking about problems
- express herself
- feel undrerstood
When they are stress :
👨 Men: - focused 👩Women : - overwhelmed
- withdrawn - emotionally involved
- solving the problem - talking about problems
- express herself
- feel undrerstood
POINT 3
The Side of Speaking
👨Men
When men are
communicating with their friend, they only talk to the point. They talk in very
literal terms. They talk when it is needed, especially it is important. Because
they non-communicative and expressive. The words used are simple and not
dramatic.
👩Woman
When women are communicating
with their friends, they are more communicative. The words used are more
artistic and dramatic. Because woman is more expressive. They like express
their feelings or share their problems to their closes friends.
POINT 4
👨Men are easily to forgive,
they don't think too much about it, because they use their logic not their
feeling. So, they quickly move on and resolve.
👩Women are easy to forgive
too, but they still remember it. Even when her partner has a mistake, women
sometimes bring up their partner's past. Because they have deep feeling and
always use their feeling.
We know that men and
women are different, they have their own paths. Therefore, a relationship must
be open to each other, understanding, caring, accepting and trusting each
other. So that, their relationship is going well.
Do you feel it?
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FYI : This is resume from book by John Gray (publised, 1992)
SEE
YOU LATER 💋💋
Nice post sar👍
BalasHapusNice topic 👍
BalasHapusGreat post sarwah👍
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